Mental Wealth
About
When we talk about “mental health,” it’s often in terms of mental illness, like depression or anxiety, eating disorders, or panic attacks. The terms we use as the opposite of mental health are “emotional well-being” or “wellness,” vague terms with positive connotations but no clear standards. At Pelham Together, we want to encourage “mental wealth,” a standard that encourages proactive attention to our mental health. Too often, we pay attention to our mental health only in reaction to negative circumstances like stress, grief, relationship problems or serious physical illness. When we are reactive, we are playing catch-up, and trying to protect our mental health while coping with a life stressor at the same time.
This section on mental wealth encourages attention to mental health even when life is going smoothly. We can build our mental health resources, through self-care, attention to our relationships, and activities like mindfulness and gratitude. Then we’ll increase our day-to-day contentment and be better prepared for the curve balls that life inevitably throws.
Service Providers
Adolescent mental health concerns, including depression, anxiety and identity development.
Individual and family therapy for adolescents and adults. Specialties include trauma, emotion regulation.
Small group practice offering thoughtful and effective psychological and educational interventions to children, adolescents and adults.
Expertise lies in college students and adults suffering from anxiety (social or generalized anxiety, panic, OCD), depression, and/or dealing with significant life stressors or changes. I pride myself in risk assessments, and in discerning accurate diagnoses, thereby helping recognize normal patterns and behaviors from those more pathological. Whether virtual or in-person, I work with patients (and their families if warranted) to holistically address their concerns, and collectively develop effective interventions and treatment modalities.
I work with adults, children and adolescents. Areas of specialty in my practice include: anxiety, depression, loss, adjustment, relationship issues and mindfulness training. Using an empathic, strength based approach that is designed to help you to feel better and make positive changes in your life is the essence of my work.
Articles
What a great way to de-stress from the tests!! PMHS, PMHS PTA, and Pelham Together Youth Council organized some much-needed time with the most adorable dogs on Thursday, May 11th. Lulu, Addie, and Minka were so lovable! We look forward to doing this again in the future!
There is plenty of research on the connection between gratitude and happiness—some of those experts and studies are found in this article, Giving Thanks Can Make You Happier, published by Harvard Health Publishing.
How do we “bottle up” hope? With so many things in the news that are hard to hear, hard to process, and hard to talk about with our kids, I think we all need a way to bottle up hope to make it easier to move forward. After our schools were closed last Friday and yet one more person in my circle was affected by Covid, I felt myself giving up hope…
Did you know that Pelham Together’s Mental Health committee connects families to local mental health providers who are vetted, affordable and individually matched to the family’s needs? In 2021, we’ve matched over 50 families to therapists for child, adult, couples and family therapy.
SummerFest 2021 was a GREAT SUCCESS!! The Dog Parade, tie dye, the live music with all our Pelham teen bands, the Thrive class, the Rowing class, lawn games, and the adult-only beer garden to end the day were FUN for everyone.
Panic is a terrible feeling, but there is hope for dealing with this challenge (whether for you, a friend, loved one, or family member) and I’ll describe the first steps that you can take in this article.
Organizations
Everyday life is full of challenges big and small. When you give children the tools to overcome obstacles, you help them learn and grow.
The Jed Foundation’s Mental Health Resource Center provides essential information about common emotional health issues and shows teens and young adults how they can support one another, overcome challenges and make a successful transition to adulthood.
Hey Sigmund is all about practical, research-driven information about parenting and child development. This website contains the latest research and news in psychology.
Our mission is to provide empowering, evidence-based information that you can use to help yourself and your loved ones.
Books
Black psychologists suggest books that have been helpful, interesting, entertaining, motivational, etc. to them. Biographies, memoirs, children’s books, mental health/wellness, parenting, race/social justice, relationships, grief, spiritual, fiction and more.
Other Resources
While adolescents of all genders are using online and social media platforms daily, with over half saying “constantly” (Pew Research Center, 2023), there are unique social pressures and risks that girls face in their digital lives that can significantly affect their physical and mental health.
Co-Founders of Upshur Bren presented expert guidance about how parents can learn to interact with their children in ways that help reduce the child’s anxiety.
Features tools that help the user remain indistractable, articles on related issues, and links to Nir Eyal’s books and workshops.
Grounding is focusing on our surroundings and the present moment instead of being trapped by the thoughts that cause us to feel anxious, overwhelmed, or out of control.
TeenCentral is a website powered by KidsPeace as a free and safe prevention and intervention resource specifically for youth.