LGBTQIA+
Pelham Together has gathered the below resources to support the health, well-being and connections of LBGTQ youth and families of our community.
If you have additional resources to recommend, please email Melissa Ronan, LMSW, at melissaronan@verizon.net.
Organizations
WJCS Center Lane is where LGBTQ+ youth create community, connect with culture, and contribute to the world!
Our Mission: Advocate | Educate | Celebrate. To further the cause of inclusion, diversity, and pride through education, advocacy, and celebration. Sign up on the website to receive a weekly e-newsletter providing timely resources, events, etc.
Half of Us provides resources for all types of mental health concerns, as well as offering ways to call or text for immediate help.
The goal of this website is to offer information and tools to individuals who are affected by an eating disorder and to their families. Individuals and families who learn about the complexity of eating disorders are better equipped to make continuing, tangible progress.
GLAAD is a LGBTQ Media Advocacy organization. Their website offers a wealth of information, resources, news, and initiatives, including youth programs.
Positive Youth Development (PYD), harm reduction and trauma-informed care are the theoretical frameworks in which we ground our programming. Our programs and services are all designed to help young people reach their full potential.
The Tyler Clementi Foundation was founded by the Clementi family to prevent bullying through inclusion and the assertion of dignity and acceptance as a way to honor the memory of Tyler: a son, a brother, and a friend.
The leading national education organization focused on ensuring safe and affirming schools for LGBTQ students.
Service Providers
Stress management skills for individuals; family dynamics; school and sports performance. Anxiety, depression, PTSD and panic symptoms.
Adolescent mental health concerns, including depression, anxiety and identity development.
Individual and family therapy for adolescents and adults. Specialties include trauma, emotion regulation.
Full-time social worker at PMHS available to counsel students about social and emotional issues and substance use.
Specializes in individual therapy for adolescents and young adults, as well as parenting support.
Anxiety, depression, relationships, LGBTQIA+, OCD, personality disorders, trauma. Young adults, adults and elderly.
Consultation, diagnosis and evidence-based treatment to all ages with a focus on highlighting individual strengths and building resilience. Our clinical team recognizes that it truly does take a village to raise healthy children.
Articles
PMHS junior Jordan Schwarz explains the realities around the need for gender neutral bathrooms. “I have never used the bathroom at PMHS. I do not feel comfortable using bathrooms labeled “girls” or “boys”, as I identity as non-binary.”
Especially during the pandemic, it can be hard to tell what is typical teen behavior and when it would be beneficial to see a professional. For suggestions on places to look for help in answering this question, inside Pelham schools and outside, read more here.
At this extremely difficult time managing anxiety and stress levels during the COVID-19 pandemic, you may be looking for mental health support for yourself or a loved one. Once you decide, you may be concerned about the cost. Pelham Together has researched a number of provider options in lower Westchester County, including the insurance they accept.
Books
Other Resources
Written by women of color, this guide lists mental health resources created specifically for BIPOC individuals.
Online courses that offer the opportunity to learn coping and holistic healing skills from licensed psychotherapists at an affordable price.
From Human Rights Campaign, the largest national lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer civil rights organization.
Terms related to sexual orientation and gender diversity have been defined in several APA documents. Due to the developing understanding of constructs, shifting usage of terms, and contextual focus of these documents, the definitions vary somewhat. This resource provides definitions and their sources.
TERMINOLOGY
Language to consider
Preferred: gay (adj.), gay man, bisexual person, lesbian(n.), queer person
Avoid: homosexual (as a n. or adj.), gays (n.)
Preferred: sexual orientation, orientation
Avoid: sexual preference
Preferred: LGBTQ people and their lives
Avoid: gay lifestyle, transgender lifestyle
Preferred: marriage equality, marriage for gay/lesbian couples, marriage
Avoid: gay marriage or same-sex marriage
Preferred: lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer community
Avoid: gay community
Preferred: transgender (adj.), trans (adj.)
Avoid: transgendered, a transgender (n.), transvestite, tranny (slur)
Preferred: gender identity, gender expression
Avoid: sexual identity
APA resources to educate the public, support the work of psychologists and inform public policy about LGBTI people and their lives and health needs.